Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie has said she is terrified that her young boys will “join the manosphere”.
Speaking at Cheltenham literature festival on Saturday, the Nigerian-American author of works including Americanah told an audience that having two boys has made her “worry more” about men and boys.
“I keep reading these pieces about the manosphere, and I’ve just read a book about how men, how boys, are struggling, and now I’m terrified that my boys not only will struggle through their teen years, but then somehow will join the manosphere and start to talk about how women should be in the kitchen or something,” she said.
“But really, that’s not going to happen. I will not respond well to that nonsense,” she added to audience laughter.
Adichie and her husband, Ivara Esege, have three children: a 10-year-old daughter, and twin boys age one and a half.
The boys are “going to grow up in a world that’s quite different from the world which I grew up in, and my husband grew up in”, she said. “I think they’re fortunate to have a good father. But sometimes I think: do we have what it takes to make sure that they turn out right? And I’m so keen to have them turn out right.”
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For Adichie, feminism is “dreaming of how the world could be better”. “Part of this dream for me – now, as a mother of boys – has involved a keener interest in boys”. She added that “we should talk more about boys and men. It’s important. Because boys are struggling”.
Adichie appeared at the festival to collect the Sunday Times award for literary excellence, and was presented with a first edition copy of Chinua Achebe’s novel Arrow of God, which she described as his “greatest novel”. She then discussed her latest novel, Dream Count, with the Times literary critic Johanna Thomas-Corr.
While Adichie spoke extensively about feminism, she did not address the backlash she has faced in recent years for her views on trans women. The criticism began in 2017 after an interview on Channel 4 in which she said that “when people talk about, you know, ‘Are trans women women?’, my feeling is that trans women are trans women”. In an interview with the Guardian in February this year, she did not answer questions on the topic, only coming close to the subject at a later point in the interview: “What do I want to say about cancel culture? Cancel culture is bad. We should stop it. End of story.”
Asked in Cheltenham what women should be doing about issues such as the rollback of reproductive rights in the US, Adichie said: “Women have really done everything they should. I want to talk about what men should be doing.
“In general, women will listen to women and men, men will listen to men. So I think we need to recruit some good men to go out there and talk to other men.”
